I still find it amazing how much people love to talk about others in a bad way.
You do realise that every time you say anything or think anything bad about another you are only HURTING YOURSELF.
When we say anything or even begin to think badly of anyone we lower our mood. We also lower our frequency, our standards and our energy. The more time we give to that person the more energy we waste, the more time we waste and the more we destroy ourselves internally. We introduce stress chemicals into our bodies like cortisol which loves to make us fat and destroys any chance of positive repair and growth within the physical body. All of this just to slander someone? Seems pointless right, but people LOVE to talk badly about others.
Talking negatively of others comes from the emotion fear. We are fully engaging the ego and we are doing nothing but judging. If we judge we perceive ourselves as ‘Better” than the other person. If we are better than the person we are slandering… why are we lowering ourselves to speak so badly of them? Surely that makes us just as ‘stupid’ as them or even worse…
What do you wish to achieve from doing such a thing? The only thing you will achieve is pain, karma and negative energy. The universe and people are very reflective. Im sure you have heard the saying, ‘What you put out the universe, you will get right back’. Well this is very true, when you direct negative energy at another being, you will get it straight back. Ever been angry and then stubbed your toe? Ever sat there with your friends laughing at someone else’s expense behind there back to then go and find a parking ticket on your car? Someone stole you handbag? You just dropped your phone, again? Be careful of those people with smashed phones 🙂
What we put out we always get back, simple. PERIOD. Next time you decided to laugh at someone, say anything bad about them just be aware you are about to get that right back at least 2X harder. It is not worth it all. Also remember how much more of a dick you are becoming by engaging in such thoughts or acts! The world doesn’t need anymore bad people so change yourself!
Hate speech is just another form of anger. Buddha says much about anger. TWO of his best sayings are…
Being angry at someone is like picking up a hot coal and throwing it at them, YOU GET BURNT!!!
Being angry at someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die…
Buddha has his shit together. You need to get it together too.
One last thing id like to enlighten you on today is a quick insight into the esseene mirrors.
Very simply this is what you think of others is usually who you are yourself. When we quickly point the finger at others and say it is them who has a certain problem, it is 99% probably actually you who has that problem, not them. They are a part of your illusion showing you just who you really are.
DROP the EGO. QUIT Judging others. You are in no position to judge anybody. Speak badly about anyone and expect that negativity to come back around ten fold.
Be LOVING. Be KIND. Be gentle. Be AWARE. Be PRESENT. Be the person you wish to see in others. BE an EXAMPLE.
All my unconditional love