Life is full of ups and down.
Somedays are just plain horrible whilst other days are absolutely awesome. This is not determined by the way you feel and what mood you are in, there are supposed to be a variety of ups and downs in your day to day lives.
Life is all about balance. From the night comes the day. From the good comes the bad. From the potato comes a chip (fries). Everything natural always has an opposing side.
Life should be balanced.
Today Id like to just help you understand why life has it ups and downs and why you should just let them come into your life wether they are good or bad and just trust life to keep flowing.
Life is all about experience. Its about having and learning from as many different experiences as possible, as the more things we learn, the more things we have to take away with us when we ascend and leave this physical dimension. We came to earth as a soul, we incarnated into a human as a baby and we had a pre written plan of action all decided before we got here, to complete be we die and return to the source. So the more we learn the better off we will be when we leave. Money, cars, clothes and all material things are not experiences that you can take with you, so they are useless things to focus on. They are not part of your journey and will not contribute anything to your life other than to deceive and distract you from your real life path.
So with life being based around experiences wether they are emotional, physical, psychological or spiritual etc they will all bring different aspects to your life and allow you to learn something different from each and everyone of them. You have to understand that we as humans tend to learn better from feeling pain. This is why when people break the law they are punished mentally and physically in correctional facilities for long periods of time. Time in solitary brings many people great amounts of psychological, mental and emotional pain. This is the way the system uses to teach people lessons. Your life is much the same. If it wants you to experience something and to learn from the experience it will usually decide to take a huge shit on you, period. We learn quicker this way even if it pains us.
So I want you to take from this blog that it is ok to be hurt by experiences in your life.
They are being placed there on your path to help you learn which in the long run you will gain from. Some people suffer from a crazy amount of losses and bad experiences over a short period of time and think there life is done for or over but this is not the case. Maybe its because they learn so fast. They go from one lesson to another so quickly it appears that they are always suffering. (If the suffering is related to each individual incident, not if you are suffering with depression etc) Don’t worry as this is a blessing in disguise. They most likely are flying through all there lessons now so in the future they can have a much easier time. Some people also have lessons spread out over larger periods of time which can appear to some people like they are always ok and never have an periods of learning or suffering, but don’t worry they still do its just spread out.
The speed in which we get these experiences or lessons is dependant on where you are at on your journey. It is also dependant on what incarnation you are in and what stage you are at in your souls evolution. We must trust that our soul is guiding us on the right path that we need to go down in this life. We must trust that with the bad comes the good. Not all lessons are bad and will cause suffering its just that most of the time we chose to ignore the nicer lessons we are given so we are punished with bad ones. Learn to spot all the potential lessons that you are getting thrown at you in your day to day life. Decoded the signs and work on things as soon as you notice them. Trust that you are on the right path and that you are becoming a better person everyday. When life choses to take away from you, understand that life is still about balance and that it will definitely give you something back. When something goes bad, trust that something good is coming. I think a positive state of mind is important at all times. When something bad does happen to us in life and you continue to prolong an ill state of mind you will just attract more negativity and pain in your life.
So, trust that your journey knows what you need and where you need to go. Let your life flow and allow it to flower and fruit naturally in front of you. You have ZERO control over what happens no matter how careful you think you are being. Life WILL find lessons to teach you and give you the experiences you need to have before you leave. Be one with your soul, let your life flow like a river and just embrace it. Let bad experiences come and go and be ready to accept all great things to also come and go as they please. Like i said before do not focus on trying to control it, you cannot do so. Just let it flow and go with it. Be present, be grateful and be positive.
Trust in your journey and if it has been bad recently, just BE PATIENT and allow it work itself out. Remember from the BAD comes the good. Open your heart, be loving always and be grateful of everything in your life.
Rumi – You have to keep breaking your heart, until it opens…
Dont be afraid to keep failing or too keep feeling pain, it will only make you stronger in the long run. The more pain you feel now, the less you will feel later on in life if you LEARN from it 🙂
Everything is in place, accept the challenges and keep pushing through. There is always light at the end of the tunnel if you have a pure heart.