It’s YOU that makes yourself feel the way you do, YES YOU!!!

I get tired of people blaming others for how they feel.

We live in an society where everyone else is to blame. It could never be your fault of course not!

Today Id like to prove to you how it is completely YOUR fault when you feel bad, neglected, you feel fat or you feel upset. YES, all of the above are down to you and all those feelings are coming from you, not from anyone else.

This is really easy to understand so bare with me for a moment. The blame game is for victims, victims don’t succeed, they always lose.

Lets say I call someone fat. Person number one is somebody I know to be confident and not bothered much by what anyone else says. Person number two is insecure and cares too much about what people think.

Me – Person number one: Dave, you are looking a bit fat, have you put on weight recently?

Dave: Your mum feeds me too much when I stay over at hers for the weekend.

Me – Person number two: Andrea, you are looking a bit fat, have you put on weight recently?

Andrea: OMG really? Is it bad? OMG I’m going to have to get on a diet again. Am I really looking that bad? (Goes home an hour later, cries and starts poking her belly blames me for being fat because I pointed it out, gets depressed, eats a cake)

Now imagine in both of those situations I was speaking and acting in exactly the same way, the same place, time and with all the same facial expressions etc

This shows how people act differently to what you say BUT also shows that each subject relates certain words to certain feelings. That means the person who is receiving the insult, reacting to a situation or emotionally connecting to an experience is the one who CHOSES to feel a certain way towards it.

I called someone fat they made joke out of it.

I called someone else fat and they decided to feel insecure, hurt and angry about it.

So was it me who MADE those people feel that way, or was it them who chose to react and feel however they chose to feel?

They chose to connect words to a feeling or an emotion, not me.

Remember when you were at school and someone called you ugly, you thought that you were definitely ugly, nobody would ever fancy you and you would only be able to hook up with other ugly people. These days if someone calls you ugly, you are like, well thank you, you must be insecure about yourself to be so rude and outspoken and your opinion doesn’t take any affect on me etc etc and you walk away not caring at all. (If you have mastered self love that is)

The same sentence, you are ugly – made you feel different each time. It was YOU who chose to feel differently this time because you have grown up and have taught yourself to think and act differently than you used too. Remember it is YOU who chose to do that, nobody else.

I could go through a million more examples but il leave it one for today. Its quite simple to understand and then just as simple to remediate once you realise what you are doing wrong. Quit playing the victim, stop playing the blame game and be responsible for your own emotions and feelings.

In this ERA we live in, humans are becoming extremely sensitive and do not wish to take the blame for anything. We make up a new disease or illness everyday so we can justify being a pathetic wreck. People eat to much food and then blame their weight gain on the fact that healthy food is too expensive or they have a thyroid disorder. The next person misses the bus, turns up late for work and is now ‘Suffering” with post traumatic stress disorder. Excuse after excuse. 

Take note of your mistakes and take responsibility.

Playing the victim will make you become a victim for life.

Know yourself. Love yourself. Be yourself.

Peace & Love

Always & Forever

-Om Shanti-



Author: Illuminatus

I am you. You are me. We are all one. I hope you enjoy reading my spiritual thoughts. Im trying to help illuminate the world about the hidden truths that they don't want you to know. I would greatly appreciate it if you could leave a simple comment or like, just so I know you are enjoying these blogs. Feedback is always great! -Om Shanti- Illuminatus

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